Insight: Today, let us make peace with our haunting memories and walk ahead...

Fretting about the past is probably our most favorite pastime! Knowingly/ unknowingly or unconsciously we do this dearest job day in and day out. In this respect, our brain has a weird power! It is, to show whatever we have lost, missed, and abandoned by glorifying and magnifying it! Thus, it makes us fret, “Gosh! What a precious thing I lost”.

In reality, before we lost that something, that was somewhat special for us and, other than that having that thing  was a fact. But once we lose, our mind gives the whole scenario way too ‘special effect ‘ and starts replaying....

Mind misleads our memory so badly that our brain could never understand, “If it really was precious, it won’t have left us!” After all, it is our mind telling us! Then of course, we completely develop trust in our mind’s words and lose our golden time by mulling over lost rolled gold!

Whatever we have lost or missed is no more a part of our life. It is in the memory they exist. Let us make peace with our haunting memories and walk ahead with what we have. However little the hopes are, however bleak the chances are, let us take a footstep in the direction, forward!

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